Nigel's Philosophy
Understanding the Power of Your Mind
Our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are 100% determined by the memories, proofs, and references we hold in our subconscious mind.
The Formula For Creating The Life You Desire
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Everything you say or do is determined by how you view the world.
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How you view the world is determined by your perception.
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Your perception is determined by your life experiences and the memories you hold in your subconscious mind.
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Every memory – good or bad – uses the same formula for storing them in your brain – you store what you SEE, HEAR, FEEL (EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY), TASTE, and SMELL.
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You then combine all of these and give the memory/experience a MEANING.​
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The meaning you give a memory determines your BELIEF about that experience.​
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The belief you have about that memory will determine what way you will RESPOND when faced with a similar situation. (Remember – you want to avoid pain and experience only pleasure)​
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When you experience stress, overwhelm, fear, etc. – you will respond in 4 main ways – Fight, Flight, Freeze, People-Please.
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In short - if you want to change the way you behave - first of all you have to change the way you think - and you achieve that by adjusting in your mind how you view the past.
Attraction and Alignment
You attract into your life the people and circumstances that are in alignment with what you hold in your subconscious mind.
From your past experiences in life, you form beliefs and ways to behave. These beliefs can be empowering or limiting and determine the ‘lens’ through which you view the world. This 'lens' is called your PERCEPTION.
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Perception is learned – good news is you can change your perception by changing the memories you hold inside.
Internal Representational Systems
You have 5 internal representational systems (visual, feeling, auditory, smell, and taste) that are used to determine your perception of the external world. These combine to form MEMORIES. If those internal representational systems – MEMORIES – no longer support you, you can ADJUST how you hold them in your mind and REPLACE them with uplifting, confidence-building, and empowering ones.
Memories are flexible and changeable.
What you resist persists – so make peace with it – then you set yourself FREE.
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There are no broken people – everyone is perfectly producing results based on the REFERENCES and PROOFS held within their subconscious mind.
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The past is over – all you have is right now.
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You have the complete ability to change how you represent each event by changing how you internalise the event.
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Emotional choice and happiness are possible when you learn how to take control of your internal representational systems – ie – your MEMORIES.
